It seems that buying lingerie for their partners is still a challenge for men these days. This is because there are numerous mistakes men tend to commit while choosing underwear for their ladies.lingerie They either decide to buy sexy lingerie as a gift too soon after the beginning of a relationship, or get gifts which they enjoy more than the receiver. How to avoid such mistakes? Here are a few basic tips which you should follow lest your present turns out to be a disaster.
- Don't even think about buying any intimate apparel for your lady before you see some lingerie on her. This is both inappropriate and embarrassing for the reciepient.
- Buying something that you've seen on women in adult movies - unless you know she's all for extremely daring lingerie. Always remember that the gift is for her, not for you, and try to harness your hidden fantasies about leather corsets and high heels (at least for the time being).
- As you probably know by now, dress size can be a very touchy subject, and you definitely want to avoid a situation where your lady thinks you consider her twice her actual size. That said, remember that it's always better to buy something a little tight than too loose.
- Don't forget sexy lingerie is an intimate gift. Though, for women, it's perfectly normal to give pieces of intimate apparel to each other, don't think it will be okay to give lingerie to your sister-in'law or niece. Unless you want to make a social faux pas and win some male enemies.
What factors should you consider while choosing an appropriate lingerie gift?
Size: this is the most important information you should have when going for a sexy lingerie shopping. And don't be surprised when the salesperson rolls their eyes at you showing how big she is, giving no detailed information. Finding yourself amidst all that kinky stuff is scary enough - you don't need extra stress.
If you don't know her dress size, browse through her underwear drawer and check some labels. On bras, look for some numbers followed by a letter, like 32C or 34E. Panties are simpler to decipher, because they usually come in three sizes - small, medium, and large.
Style and colour: If you want to splurge, you can go for two sets of sexy lingerie - one that you think she would buy for herself, and one which you would enjoy on her.
After figuring out her size, try to estimate, if the style of the lingerie set you're going to give her will suit her complexion, hair color and body type. If she has smaller breasts, you can look for a bra with frills or ribbons to enhance it; if she tends to cover problematic areas, such as tummy or thighs, try to find styles similar to what she normally wears to conceal them.
In general the range of styles on the market is immense, from bustiers to corsets to garter belts to bra and panty sets. You can also try some sexier stuff like sheer chemises or babydolls. Still, if she doesn't seem to be too daring, don't try to make her so. A cute cotton camisole will be perfect, and you won't have to suffer her embarrassment after receiving a kinky exotic sexy apparel set that she will probably never dare to wear.
As for the color, black, white and red are the traditional and safe options for intimate apparel. Still, you can experiment with colors that you are sure will complement her skin and hair color. Blondes love pastels and black, brunettes' skin goes perfect with ruby or sapphire. Light, warm colors and emerald will look beautiful on a woman with red hair.
By following the rules above, you will be able to choose an appropriate and appealing (to both of you!) set of sexy lingerie. Your lady will be delighted, and, feeling beautiful and sexy in the exotic underwear you gave her, will let you enjoy the moment with her.